Ever have one of those moments where you let someone get to you? That feeling when your heart flutters, your eyes tingle and all of a sudden your lungs are gasping for air. You're no where near water and yet you're drowning. Why let someone affect you that way? Their goal is your destruction so why give them what they want. The petty thing is how childish it all is. If the two of you could come to common Grounds and understand that each other, then no ones feelings would get hurt. Just remember you control your own emotions so when other people try to take that control away, it displays your weakness, when you show that person the better example, you could possibly change them and save yourself from tears.